Pyaar ka Punchnama2-A movie review!

Dearest Readers,
You all must have heard about this movie and also the controversy behind it and the cliche fight whether girls are right or boys.So if you need an answer,PKP2 is the perfect movie for you.Many girls are angry on this particular movie but I guess the anger is out of guilt.

So here's presenting before you the review of the movie.
Basically if you get offended easily,girls especially...do not watch this movie.It pin points the exact mistakes of where actually we girls go wrong.Of course in a relationship.All the 3 girls portrayed in the movie either treat their boyfriends as ATMs,Fancy dolls to show off,Drivers or servants or plainly idiots just to have timepass with.This is so not right and almost 75% of the girls feel that their bfs are dogs!Such is the truth.Majority of women represent the girls which are shown in the movie.But let me tell you not every girl is the PKP2 wali girlfriend.Now let me be more clear.
Girls expect expensive gifts every now and then and all the time of their bfs.Which is one of the reason of frustration among guys.They call you up every now n then to enquire about your whereabouts and they don't like your friends at all!I read your mind right guys?;) Girls fuss over small things,constantly nag you and they are always behind your ass.Now one girl in the movie(chiku) has this another problem of her best friend and also girl best friends who interfere too much in her life and are the reason for her breakup.She listens to them is her fault.Girls get influenced easily...right?N then there is this coward bitch who refuses to marry the guy in the end and betrays him.And then the other who uses her bf for money.Sadly such are many,many girls out there.Traitors,n users.Hush.Now the case with girls is just like how we think Indian police are.Corrupt.But not all officers are like that.Are they?Same is with girls.Most girls are the ones shown in the movie.Dumb.But not all,right?
The girl's side of the story is somewhat like this that they do expect gifts but I think expecting them always and without they giving you something is unjustified.And we girls are seriously worried about you and don't want you to be in some mess.That is why we call you up.But overdoing it.Every hour 3 times is too much.And the ones who are behind your ass for good things is okay.You guys do need a push.But pushing you off the cliff is too much.Now how real life chikus should do it is keep your best friend in limits.Most likely he likes you so maybe your bf is correct about him.Maintain safe distance.And lastly all those girls OR GUYS who ditch their partners for caste,creed,nationality and MONEY should be legally put behind the bars.Go run away from such people.
             So my dear dear friends, choose your partner with care and precaution.Judge them for weeks.Then only come to conclusion.For all my darling boys out there,watch this movie in order to avoid the breakup saga in your life.PKP2 is like the guide of which type of gf NOT TO CHOOSE.And my beautiful ladies out there watch how not to treat your bf in the ways shown in the movie.If you want him and love him as your hubby,support him,care for him,RESPECT him and his ideas,Friends.. n I'm sure you won't have a pyaar ka punchnama in your life.
I give it a 3.5/5 star for the locations in Pattaya,costumes and also for the 7 min monologue of Mr.main hero.I would have given a 4 star,but the songs bored me and too much of alcohol consumption was shown.Definitely go watch this movie with your lover or also your besties for a riot of laughter.Happy watching!!

-Peace n Love
Shalaka

Level of Satisfaction

Dearest readers,
The word satisfaction comes from its mother word inner peace.If you are satisfied it means you are happy inside out.Atleast you are okay with whatever has happened.There are many times when my mother keeps yelling on me if I am ever satisfied with anything or not.Yesterday was one such day.This got me thinking about my never ending satisfaction levels.
                       I am a very unsatisfied person,I realised.But isn't it good to be unsatisfied.If you are satisfied with what you have,you will never want more and this will endup in you becoming lazy and underachiever in your life.This would mean end of dreaming and end of chasing dreams.Would it?But then what about the famous quote "Be satisfied with what you have"?Does under satisfaction make you greedy and demanding?Or does it gives your life a new purpose every time you complete one target to attain something newer,bigger and better?
Now here comes in picture the level of satisfaction.I always feel I was capable of getting COEP college,the so called best college in Pune.I am well deserving enough to ride in an Audi or a Mercedees.I need a mansion to live.And I want to marry Hrithik.(Coz now he is single.Age no barrier.)But then only if life was a bed of roses.I have to be satisfied with a MIT,a 4 wheeler and just a flat.So what are my levels of satisfaction?I want more.Everybody wants more.Some people who have mansions,now want to live on the moon! :\ Thus,Level of satisfaction is inversely proportional to acceptance of reality.
We must not be satisfied with what we have but what we can achieve.Have a nice college?aim for a nicer job.Have a nice job?work harder for a promotion.Have a small house right now?make sure you build a larger one and make your parents proud.Ofcourse when the right time comes.Have a loving boyfriend?be satisfied with his love instead of checking out that disloyal guy with a BMW.Have a beautiful girlfriend?Be satisfied with her inner blissful soul instead of staring at that hot chick's short dress.Have only a few loving friends?Its more than enough to live your life then.Lucky you.Know your limits and know when n where to be satisfied and when n where not to.No amount of complaining took anyone anywhere.Not content with something?Not satisfied?Change it.But investigate,if it really needs a change.

Most of all be happy and at peace.So tell me,whats your level of satisfaction?A degree,a job,a house,a wife,a family,a girlfriend/boyfriend who will be your future wife/husband?Or something more?Where do you want to go?Where will you stop?Will you stop?And how much of all of this is going to affect your life and mental peace?Will you STAY STRONG throughout?Go ahead.Tell me.

-Peace n Love
Shalaka

Friendly Reminders.

Dearest Readers,

Happy Sunday!Enjoying the weekend?I hope you are.Sundays are fun-days.I mean at least you get enough sleep.I hope you do.Today I felt very confident and woke up feeling determined.This happened because I had found out some conclusions and was quite happy about it. :)

So for all of you who are out there,maybe a little stressed,a little blue,a full black or just a blunt grey...
A few friendly but Important Reminders:-

• You don't owe an explanation to anyone for taking care of yourself.-You are answerable just to yourself and your conscience.Nobody else.

• You are allowed to walk away from the people who hurt you.In any way.Without guilt.Without worry of the future.All the best.Do it now.

• An extension of point of 2.You are allowed to run as fast as possible from toxic relationships,friendships,family-ships,fights,non acceptance of your opinions.Don't accept anything that no longer grows,serves you or improves your life in any way.

• MOST IMPORTANTLY-You are allowed to be angry,selfish and unforgiving.These maybe the aftershocks of your past earthquake.Whatever your struggle,even if no one understands you,you yourself know what you have been through and what has made you into the way you are.Its okay.Okay?:)

So just remember these things and go ahead with life.Without fear of any kind or any guilt or any uneasy feeling in mind.It was your choice.To walk away or stay.If you succeed well and good,if you don't,don't waste your life in proving the society or even yourself.Bad decisions happen in life.You were born to be imperfect.Perfection is a waste of time.Smile and blow kisses!Be that confident bad-ass!

AND.

Stay Strong.

-Peace n Love.

Miss you.

Dearest Readers,
Long time no see,ya?Actually its me who is ill.Probably would have go through an operation soon.Anyways...Sickness n pain doesn't keep your mood right.So no thoughts come right.

But I'm better now today.And missed you guys and my baby way too much.About "missing" today. I'm missing someone badly everyday these days.Because that someone broke his phone.And went off to some Hawaiian Island. :/ This missing feeling is so strong.My entire day was just wasted.Missing someone or something is so common in our lives. In college we miss school.At work we miss college.In college we still miss our school crush,and as we are married off(if not to the person whom you love)we miss that ex-lover too.

This missing feeling is so consuming you know.You actually can't focus on a single shit.I did that.I watched 3 movies non stop then slept for 3 hours in the noon,non-stop.Well,Focus lost.I don't know how amazing this missing someone feeling is.You look forward to meeting that person.You check your door even if the bell didn't ring.You check your phone a 100 more times.You see old pictures,remember the memories and laugh and cry.You stare at the walls,look out of windows and travel down the memory lane.
You feel apologetic about your behaviour towards this person in the past.Scenes flood your head until you can't take it any more.Missing someone is actually a good exercise you know.You tend to analyse yourself.Review yourself.Missing someone makes you realise the degree of affection you have for a person.You get a fair idea of where he/she stands in your life.You know what guys...its actually the absence of something which makes us realise the value of everything.

If you are almost in love,and missing someone...Opps!You tend to fall more for that person.Everything you see and do makes you remind of them.You suddenly become an emotional fool.When this mainstream person is not present ,you feel like you are in some space,no air,just  vacuum.Alas,all you can do is to wait for that thing or person to arrive in front of you.And then again our joy knows no bounds.

So do you miss someone?It maybe your old self too! :) or someone you just passed by,or someone from school.Tell me whom do you miss!
or even if it is a thing.

-Peace n Love
Shalaka

Wordless Wednesday!!!

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Ps-Something nice and interesting coming up tomorrow!Stay tuned!

-Peace n Love
Shalaka

Birthdays.

Dearest Readers,
This post is going to be a bit different than the positivity I love to shower but then I guess its OK to be yourself at times.

Birthdays are the most special occasions for all.They are the days wherein people are on cloud 9.As for me I hate birthdays.I just do not like them.Surprised??Ask me why.

Every year since I was a kid,my family celebrated my birthdays very lavishly.No complaining there.But then I started realising that there was always this comparison of gifts.If I gifted an expensive gift to that particular friend,she or he would do the same for me.I smelled money,rich and poor and priorities there.This irked me to no bounds.If you love me make me a hand written card..It would have been enough and better  than a lifeless,half-hearted,same priced as my previous gift to you,is what I felt.Then I grew up and birthday parties at home stopped.We all were grown up and teenage had taken a toll on us.Now the parties and dinners started taking place in pubs,5 star hotels,etc.Even then I found out that I still hate birthdays.Because there was no celebration until I call for one.There is nothing if I don't throw a party.Those same people who came all the way to all your 19 birthday parties at home don't turn up on your 20th and 21st.People forget your birthdays.And people forget to wish at 12 o'clock too.I just could find that there was no surprise element left to a birthday.Instead people come down to their "asli aukat" on birthdays itself.People show their true colours on such special occasions itself.I have seen many of my associates have not celebrated their birthdays after the 16th one or so.I have seen people who are alone on their birthdays.I have also seen people who spoil other people's birthdays.Birthdays suck.Birthdays give you another reason to be sad in this already mundane life.It happens because he didn't wish me,she didn't come to meet me,my family did nothing special.Birthdays just fail the expectations you have set up on that day.There is a huge hue and cry about birthdays and they are overrated I feel.They just make me sad.Real sad.Sad to the bottom of my stomach.

I'm scared of birthdays actually.I fear rejection.I fear that people will forget to wish me.I will be alone on that day.I get nightmares too.I just wish this concept itself was cancelled.I would be less worried and more at peace.This fear is also to be blamed on the media.They project birthdays as the most important national event and have portrayed the celebration of birthdays in such a way that you have to get gifts.You have to have a surprise.You have to cut a cake.WHY?
What if nobody has ever done anything to surprise you.What if nobody brought a cake?What if there is no glamour to it?Your so called birthday is spoilt and you have one more scar on your memory about that day.Disappointments.Expectations violated and hearts broken.Is what birthdays are all about.I don't like birthdays.And I want to run away from mine.That's it.

I'm so sure many of you must be having many different opinions about this.And I want to know all.Please try and change my opinion if you can.And ofcourse if you love birthdays you may continue and invite me for a party too!;)
So birthday or no birthday....what's your story?


-Peace n love
Shalaka

When was that last time?

Dearest Readers,


How are you people?I've missed you and my blog so dearly.How have you been?

As humans,we are very lucky enough to experience so many emotions...isn't it?Infact we are the only animals who can laugh,..What Hyenas do is a call of their species.There are so many emotions which we go through daily...like frustration,tension,joy n sorrow.But there are some emotions which are special.Very special.And you can't and don't get to go through them daily.I'm talking about being sooo happy that you cry.Now this is something which one experiences seldom in one's life.That too in a life of today's hypocrite world.

Today,one of my friend was lucky to experience this very golden emotion in front of me.It was like this emotion transformed her completely.It made her go from a caterpillar in a cocoon to a beautifully fluttering butterfly.The happiness and aura she radiated was so contagious that we all watching her went from a zero to a whooping 100!!Such is the power of heart and happiness and emotions.

The thing which happened was that while returning home from a tiresome day of submissions,completions and running behind the deadlines was that she received a call,while all of us where busy complaining about how life was so busy and boring.She went away from us for a while and suddenly shouted on top of her voice..We all got worried at first.We thought she fell or something.And then we saw her laughing and giggling on the phone.After 15 suspicious minutes she came towards us and told us the GOOD NEWS.We all were left guessing for those 15 mins about what could have happened...n the brain is so powerful that it lets your thoughts and imaginations run far and wild!!!We thought she got proposed by a guy or she got to know a university paper or she was getting married or what! :D But then when she broke out the suspense she told us that her best friend was pregnant..for the 1st time!!!She was literally bouncing,dancing and so elated as she told us this.She had tears in her eyes.Tears of pure happiness.That too for someone else and not herself.We all were amazed at her excitement and she was so happy that we thought she could literally take the world on her head.Seeing so much of joy n merry even we all were very happy for her friend and her too.A happy person is as good as the sun.One is enough to give energy to all.Even we all were cheering with her though we had never even seen her bestie.This is the power of positivity.This was her golden moment.Once in a life time experience.N I was so glad and inspired that she was so happy in someone else's happiness and how selfless one should be.How one should find little joys of life in this long big one.

This got me thinking to another thought.WHEN WAS MY LAST GOLDEN MOMENT WHEN I WAS THIS HAPPY... THAT I ALMOST CRIED?Sadly nothing could come to my mind.Was I too busy searching for something too big to impress me?Probably waiting for a "Karan Johar moment"?Did I miss out on the small joys?I had no answer and no such luck of tears of happiness.I don't know.

Have you figured out your golden moment yet?

WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU WERE SO HAPPY THAT YOU ALMOST CRIED?
Tell me in the comments! :)Hope you have many such moments and if you haven't had it in a while... Let it come to you real soon!

Good night folks! :)

-Peace n Love
Shalaka