How busy you are really..eh?
We all are very busy...aren't we?Workplaces,colleges,travelling time,here n there..idhar udhar ki baate vagera vagera...
We often complain that we don't have enough time.For anything and everything.We do nothing the whole day n still we are busy.Time flies.N we give it wings.Many people want 48 hours to a day...Trust me... even they won't be enough.
So why are we ALWAYS.SO.BUSY.?!Often we hear from friends,relatives that they were busy in something so they couldn't be there for you.You guessed it right and no prices for guessing.Its all about priorities.No one.. really.. even Modi is not so busy that they don't have those two mins for replying to your text,or making that call or meeting you up or doing that chore for you.Mind you.NO-ONE.Its actually a matter of where you stand in a person's life which decides how much he/she will be there for you.If they are least bothered about you they will always be busy for you n your ideas.If you are the most important person in their life...they will always have time for you no matter what.Even if they are in front of their boss..they will text you.Even if they are driving...they will call you up..n even after a tiresome day they will meet you.Because they care about you n love you.
The muddle starts where you suddenly drop from number 1 on the priority list to number somewhere around 12-17.You suddenly tend to hear "I am busy,I was busy" thing a lot.This is actually quite alarming... you should try to win over your Mr.Busy or Miss.Busy ASAP or leave him or her alone to find out what exactly they are busy in.. n how long they wish to be busy.
Hearing ""I'm busy"" is actually quite daunting you know.The person on the receiving end is left wondering what went wrong..n feeling extremely sorrowful,confused... n and in anguish and umbrage.The solution is TIMED patience.Meaning... being patient and in hope for only a certain period of time... whatever you are comfortable with.. a month is more than enough I feel for a person to stabilize at least from whatever one is facing.So coming back to the solution.. We all are very intelligent these days n thanks to smart phones we are smart too.So take the hint n behave accordingly.Sense the need to leave alone the busier lot to be busy.And recognize the genuinely busy folks.They will revert back.The others won't,until you do.Just being busy will make you lose people in your life.Do you want to be that bad really?!
Now if you belong to the "I'M ALWAYS SO BUSY" lot... my dear babies.. don't do this to yourself..If you want to avoid a person... refuse directly n politely.Being busy harmed no one but being rude to people did no good.So keep your phones aside and call that friend who might be missing you and text that friend whom you are avoiding for no reason.He might have something nice to say.Go visit your grandparents.All you will receive is love n blessings which you otherwise won't receive by being busy.Make a trip to the gym... you are never really busy for your health basically.All of the above won't take more than 20 mins of yours.Spend this much time for yourself.Meditate.Run for 20 mins.Do what you love for 20 mins.Live.In the moment.Seize it my friend.
So tell me will you read this blog daily??HOW BUSY ARE YOU REALLY..EH?
-Peace n Love
Shalaka
We all are very busy...aren't we?Workplaces,colleges,travelling time,here n there..idhar udhar ki baate vagera vagera...
We often complain that we don't have enough time.For anything and everything.We do nothing the whole day n still we are busy.Time flies.N we give it wings.Many people want 48 hours to a day...Trust me... even they won't be enough.
So why are we ALWAYS.SO.BUSY.?!Often we hear from friends,relatives that they were busy in something so they couldn't be there for you.You guessed it right and no prices for guessing.Its all about priorities.No one.. really.. even Modi is not so busy that they don't have those two mins for replying to your text,or making that call or meeting you up or doing that chore for you.Mind you.NO-ONE.Its actually a matter of where you stand in a person's life which decides how much he/she will be there for you.If they are least bothered about you they will always be busy for you n your ideas.If you are the most important person in their life...they will always have time for you no matter what.Even if they are in front of their boss..they will text you.Even if they are driving...they will call you up..n even after a tiresome day they will meet you.Because they care about you n love you.
The muddle starts where you suddenly drop from number 1 on the priority list to number somewhere around 12-17.You suddenly tend to hear "I am busy,I was busy" thing a lot.This is actually quite alarming... you should try to win over your Mr.Busy or Miss.Busy ASAP or leave him or her alone to find out what exactly they are busy in.. n how long they wish to be busy.
Hearing ""I'm busy"" is actually quite daunting you know.The person on the receiving end is left wondering what went wrong..n feeling extremely sorrowful,confused... n and in anguish and umbrage.The solution is TIMED patience.Meaning... being patient and in hope for only a certain period of time... whatever you are comfortable with.. a month is more than enough I feel for a person to stabilize at least from whatever one is facing.So coming back to the solution.. We all are very intelligent these days n thanks to smart phones we are smart too.So take the hint n behave accordingly.Sense the need to leave alone the busier lot to be busy.And recognize the genuinely busy folks.They will revert back.The others won't,until you do.Just being busy will make you lose people in your life.Do you want to be that bad really?!
Now if you belong to the "I'M ALWAYS SO BUSY" lot... my dear babies.. don't do this to yourself..If you want to avoid a person... refuse directly n politely.Being busy harmed no one but being rude to people did no good.So keep your phones aside and call that friend who might be missing you and text that friend whom you are avoiding for no reason.He might have something nice to say.Go visit your grandparents.All you will receive is love n blessings which you otherwise won't receive by being busy.Make a trip to the gym... you are never really busy for your health basically.All of the above won't take more than 20 mins of yours.Spend this much time for yourself.Meditate.Run for 20 mins.Do what you love for 20 mins.Live.In the moment.Seize it my friend.
So tell me will you read this blog daily??HOW BUSY ARE YOU REALLY..EH?
-Peace n Love
Shalaka
Very interesting article.Now onward, I dont't care how busy I am- I will always make time for what's most important to me.
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