Lover,Shh...,Dating
The moment I use the word LOVER...someone must have popped up in your mind.Oh wait...was it just one or many?Even if the count went above just one,even if it was one true and half a crush...Welcome to the 21st century.
Well the problem starts with the end of 1st true love.. n well let me tell you if its 1st love it has to end!(**If you are still with your first love,still better you both are childhood sweethearts...GO GET MARRIED and don't come back here** :D).So if your beautiful Yash Chopra's film set,with KJo as a director & Switzerland shooting location,Chiffon saris & SRK like handsome prince and "place any heroine's name you like"like princess has ended...Welcome to the club of 83% people around the world.The story actually starts with the innocent guy's heart being taken away(read crushed,stamped upon,destroyed to pieces)by the bad-ass,sexy,over-smart bitch & with the innocent girl's heart being taken away(read changed forever,ignored,broken..n blah)by the dude of the crowd with eyes that could kill and who is a total heart wrecker with his charming talks.
The conclusion point is the generation today can remain in love only until their 1st breakup happens.What follows next is series of cigarettes,drunken sailors,drug addicts,loss of character and most importantly loss of hope in life and loss of faith in love.This is a very serious problem of today where this generation guys and girls CANNOT STAY IN LOVE!:( The prime reason being the hurt their innocence received and the way their Yash Chopra dream set was set on fire.And if its your 1st breakup,things are worse.Girls leave guys for their lack of cash,for caste or unwillingness to adjust or simply "I don't love you anymore reason"(read utter bullshit).Guys leave girls for maybe because they can't find her sexy anymore(read he saw a model like babe) or simply "I don't love you anymore reason"(read utter bullshit).So whatever magic the guy & girl saw in the eyes of each other,the love they felt in the 1st kiss,the company they couldn't live without is lost more quickly than the expiring date of their 1st gift.
My Question-WHY SO?
Everybody today should try to remain in love and stay happy that way.If you have your 1st love with you,please stay with him/her.Yes,there will be nasty fights,there will be another one whose cuter,smarter, & the one "who understands you more".But just because some thing new glittered in your life don't forget your real gold.Try to work things out instead of fighting and abusing and finally breaking up.Take your ego levels down.Basically I believe there should not be terms like boyfriend/girlfriend,casual dating etc.It should be replaced by my future husband,wife,dreaming of marriage soon.Only one man/woman that too forever and after.And then God makes this belief of yours crash.What you do next is important,don't search for someone to get over your ex.You yourself are powerful enough to overcome that shit.Wait for your next lover to come to you & hold on tight to him/her.Improve the mistakes you made in your last relationship.Introspect,grow up and grow out of it.
My whole and soul message is "Don't fall out of love so soon guys...Don't fall in soon too".Think about all the angles of it before you enter a relationship.Cross check 1st time itself whether it will be worth your time,money and mental state.See,prevention is better than cure!;-)
Jumping from one relation to other and hurting yourself and others is easy.Casual dating is easy.What is not easy is compromises,adjustments,saying the 1st sorry after a fight,waiting for a person to come back after a breakup.Try to work on the gold 1st and even after a year it doesn't work n you simply feel it was brass scrap you loved :-D..then move on with a shield around your heart towards the glitter you saw.It might be a diamond or a piece of shinning glass you never know!:-))
-Peace n Love
Shalaka
The moment I use the word LOVER...someone must have popped up in your mind.Oh wait...was it just one or many?Even if the count went above just one,even if it was one true and half a crush...Welcome to the 21st century.
Well the problem starts with the end of 1st true love.. n well let me tell you if its 1st love it has to end!(**If you are still with your first love,still better you both are childhood sweethearts...GO GET MARRIED and don't come back here** :D).So if your beautiful Yash Chopra's film set,with KJo as a director & Switzerland shooting location,Chiffon saris & SRK like handsome prince and "place any heroine's name you like"like princess has ended...Welcome to the club of 83% people around the world.The story actually starts with the innocent guy's heart being taken away(read crushed,stamped upon,destroyed to pieces)by the bad-ass,sexy,over-smart bitch & with the innocent girl's heart being taken away(read changed forever,ignored,broken..n blah)by the dude of the crowd with eyes that could kill and who is a total heart wrecker with his charming talks.
The conclusion point is the generation today can remain in love only until their 1st breakup happens.What follows next is series of cigarettes,drunken sailors,drug addicts,loss of character and most importantly loss of hope in life and loss of faith in love.This is a very serious problem of today where this generation guys and girls CANNOT STAY IN LOVE!:( The prime reason being the hurt their innocence received and the way their Yash Chopra dream set was set on fire.And if its your 1st breakup,things are worse.Girls leave guys for their lack of cash,for caste or unwillingness to adjust or simply "I don't love you anymore reason"(read utter bullshit).Guys leave girls for maybe because they can't find her sexy anymore(read he saw a model like babe) or simply "I don't love you anymore reason"(read utter bullshit).So whatever magic the guy & girl saw in the eyes of each other,the love they felt in the 1st kiss,the company they couldn't live without is lost more quickly than the expiring date of their 1st gift.
My Question-WHY SO?
Everybody today should try to remain in love and stay happy that way.If you have your 1st love with you,please stay with him/her.Yes,there will be nasty fights,there will be another one whose cuter,smarter, & the one "who understands you more".But just because some thing new glittered in your life don't forget your real gold.Try to work things out instead of fighting and abusing and finally breaking up.Take your ego levels down.Basically I believe there should not be terms like boyfriend/girlfriend,casual dating etc.It should be replaced by my future husband,wife,dreaming of marriage soon.Only one man/woman that too forever and after.And then God makes this belief of yours crash.What you do next is important,don't search for someone to get over your ex.You yourself are powerful enough to overcome that shit.Wait for your next lover to come to you & hold on tight to him/her.Improve the mistakes you made in your last relationship.Introspect,grow up and grow out of it.
My whole and soul message is "Don't fall out of love so soon guys...Don't fall in soon too".Think about all the angles of it before you enter a relationship.Cross check 1st time itself whether it will be worth your time,money and mental state.See,prevention is better than cure!;-)
Jumping from one relation to other and hurting yourself and others is easy.Casual dating is easy.What is not easy is compromises,adjustments,saying the 1st sorry after a fight,waiting for a person to come back after a breakup.Try to work on the gold 1st and even after a year it doesn't work n you simply feel it was brass scrap you loved :-D..then move on with a shield around your heart towards the glitter you saw.It might be a diamond or a piece of shinning glass you never know!:-))
-Peace n Love
Shalaka
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