What is better... seriousness or timepass?

Dearest Readers,
First of all wishing you a very happy and prosperous ganesh chaturthi n the whole of ganesh festival.
Many of you messaged me and asked me about why there was no post yesterday.The reason is I'm not much elated at the thought of festivals... which I will be blogging about later.

So today as a friend of mine n I was talking about relationships..we came across a surprising analysis.It concluded that most couples who were not serious with each other...were happier than the couples who were serious.Here non seriousness for us meant that it was casual dating,hanging out,f**k buddies and overall whatever we refer as "Timepass".Meaning No Intention of marriage or kids or a future together.Temporary bullshit from my point of view.But later on I also agreed with her that these people were indeed happier than the ones who dreamt of marriage,kids,and growing old together.

Is this really true?
Looking at my friends and friends of friends... it does seem like people who are just chilling with each other are enjoying their lives in each n every sense.Reason.They fight rarely because nothing bothers them much...they accept the way their partner is because they know they won't be living with him/her forever.
Some comparisons I can put up-
S is serious wale relations and Cd is casual daters.
So it happens this way that:-
Bf/gf is smoking.
S-"Why do you have to smoke at all...You will die one day.What will our kids do without you."
Cd-"Baby...pass me the ciggi na!"
See.. no fights in Cd at all..Peace.

Bf/gf does not text on time.
S-"Where were you...what took you so long..what were you doing????"
Cd-"Baby mekko treat chahiye tune late reply kiya isliye."
Poor serious gf/bf is worried about you n this ends up in a fight as to why she or he asked sooo many questions.

Bf/gf is depressed.
S-"You should be more responsible na baccha.. listen to your mom..do this n that...blah."
Cd-"Chill baby.. you want a kissi?"
Poor serious gf/bf tried to go into the root cause n this ended up in a fight were gf or bf shouted saying "You always blame me!!!"

I can give you numerous other incidences where you will find that not being serious was way helpful than really caring about the person in front of you.It really avoids fights,clashes n shit.All you have to do is sit in your bf's lavish car,drive along...ENJOY your day n then forget about him/her until the next time you meet.But personally I'm against this.Because I feel this is not LOVE.Love is to tell each others mistakes,where he she is going wrong.To correct them.To shout on them.To make sure they walk on correct path,be with right people.Caring and loving is what goes in the long term.Not just the TIMEPASS done with them or the ENJOYment.

Such type of enjoyment can be done by anyone and everyone..It takes guts,courage and the will to make a relationship work by being serious about it.So what are you?On which side are you?Are you thinking long term or just chilling?Are you that strong enough for a relationship?

-Peace n love
Shalaka