CHANGE.

Dearest Readers,
A big big hello to you all!!!I know I'm late.But I'm so so sorry...I was figuring out a few things.
We will come to that!So...Hows the new outlook?Liked it?Not much?Let me know....
I thought as my baby was a month a old...I should give it a new look and feel! :-D

Its changed now.Its a month mature...N this got me thinking about CHANGE.This word is so common that we use it every now and then.So how much is a change necessary?What does a change necessarily mean?What changes-people,time,priorities?and many such questions remain which are left unasked and unanswered.

Through my glasses,Change is a necessity today.One should change according to time and places.
One should change if the person standing in front of you has changed,AND not try to change him/her back to the original copy of themselves.Sometimes there are many reasons for them to change and the other times are when there is no reason for a change.People think changing anything about yourself is bad.Its not so.Many people are even afraid to change at all.But Change is a good thing infact.You should change.NOW. n I'll tell you how.

First of all understand change can bring you happiness...Mental peace.So you can change yourself in any of the following ways-
CHANGE YOUR LOOK- ;-)Interesting right?GO you lazy bum,walk to the nearest parlour and get yourself a new and fresh look.Cut off that hair or give it a shape.Do your manicure,pedicure(my male friends can also do this.)Trust me you'll come out looking sexy and confident.Co'om even you deserve some pampering.


CHANGE YOUR WARDROBE-yeessss.... This becomes the most interesting part of the story.You get to go shopping!!!Buy new shirts,jeans,wallet,bag,shoes,glares,perfumes..whatever you like.Even if the quantity is small.You will feel happy and content.
So basically I want to prove you guys that change can bring trueeeee happinessss!!:-D


CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE-Now this is the difficult part I know.AND NO LECTURES ON THIS POINT.But just that if you are doing some completions,catching some deadlines..just do it with Smartwork.. and Don't crib and cry about it.Try and enjoy whatever you are doing.


CHANGE YOUR OUTLOOK-Now this is the actual thing I have done to me this week and it took me some time but I have implemented it and it works!!!The inspiration was Insta.
Instagram's "thegoodquote.co" says something like this - "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to CHANGE the world,Today I'm wise so I'm changing myself." SO TRUE na?
We are irritated by numerous people everyday...by the things people do,their nature,their stupidities,their ignorance n etc etc etc.So what I understood by this quote was that you should actually let people be the way they are.They won't change anyway.But you will end up feeling stupid and unattended and hurt if you try to change them.So why not let destiny and karma decide what should be done with them?Just let go.I know you try to change the people whom you love,care..but what if they don't want to?Your job is to tell once,twice,thrice..but what after that.NO.Pull back yourself.Same goes with people who are already CHANGED and behaving weirdly.Leave them too.Give them their "so-called" SPACE and let them change the way they want.What you change is yourself.Because that is waaaaaaaay easier.Change your feelings for such people and act numb and unaffected.

People try to pull you down,you react..they are happy.Instead CHANGE yourself and understand that they are built that way.You can't help it.Let them be.But now that you remain unaffected and have understood their mentality you are at peace.Same goes for people who hurt you,make you angry,and blah.

So by changing all the above things about yourself you will be the most happiest person on earth.Seriously try them.I did.I'm speaking out of sheer experience of these 3-4 days.Let nothing affect you.Change yourself for a happier,better,and improved version of yourself.Download the UPDATE of yourself now.Keep little things little.N Stay Strong and Stay Blessed!!

Are you clever or wise?

-Peace n Love
Shalaka