Uncomplicating People.
Dearest Readers,
Often it happens with us that we don't understand the behaviour of others.Towards us,towards society or anything for that matter.We just sum it up saying that the person is "complicated".We fail to understand people,personalities and their intention.
Yesterday we had our industrial visit to various places.The intention was ofcourse that the students should enjoy TOGETHER and get an idea about the industrial environment.Leave the later part but people take the meaning of enjoy together as enjoy together in groups,subgroups and individuals with their eyephones on and people who aren't interested in anything.(Attendance probably or their parents kicked them out of their houses).
I always wonder,why do people do this to themselves,to the people around them?If you are plainly not interested in anything stay at home.Why do you have to come in the first place.. to show the world you that you are doing a favour on them?I simply fail to understand the mob mentality.Well people who are interested are so small in number that they almost disappear in the crowd.Showing lack of interest discourages the crowd and makes the whole atmosphere dull.I call such people diffusers.They take away the light in everything.They are disappointed by each and everything.They suck out life in you and leave you unfulfilled.These people are complicated,unsolvable,irritating and also they themselves cannot provide any justification on why they behave in a certain manner.
People are complicated maybe because they have some serious complicated things going on in their life or maybe because they are angry on the world for rewarding them with some injustice.Or they might be born that way or they might have changed after an event in their life or they are insecure about something or plainly they are hungry!(So if you find any more reasons...please mention in the comments box. :D)
So finally accepting that certain people are built in a certain way.. what do people around them do?
Me?I ignore such people and don't let them in my happy zone.Thats the best possible way.You can also try and change these diffusers.(my advice-DO NOT.)You also can enquire about the reason they are this way.Maybe they will be able to explain their struggle and you will understand why they are Complicated.Or plainly move on with your life.But if you yourself are one of the candle blowers..if you know what I meant here..then please my darling...stop it right now.Analyize whether you are causing trouble to the people around you?Are you being ignored?Are you really at fault?If yes,its time to sort yourself out my friend.See what is bothering you and don't make the weather around you gloomy.
Laugh and Enjoy when you are supposed to.Be sad and sit and cry when you are in real need of it.Ponder over yourself.Think twice.But most importantly LIVE AND LET LIVE.And LOVE.Life is really short,cut out this complication of yours well in advance before it consumes you completely.
Don't be a diffuser and stay away from one.SMILEEEE..., :)
-Peace n Love
Shalaka
Dearest Readers,
Often it happens with us that we don't understand the behaviour of others.Towards us,towards society or anything for that matter.We just sum it up saying that the person is "complicated".We fail to understand people,personalities and their intention.
Yesterday we had our industrial visit to various places.The intention was ofcourse that the students should enjoy TOGETHER and get an idea about the industrial environment.Leave the later part but people take the meaning of enjoy together as enjoy together in groups,subgroups and individuals with their eyephones on and people who aren't interested in anything.(Attendance probably or their parents kicked them out of their houses).
I always wonder,why do people do this to themselves,to the people around them?If you are plainly not interested in anything stay at home.Why do you have to come in the first place.. to show the world you that you are doing a favour on them?I simply fail to understand the mob mentality.Well people who are interested are so small in number that they almost disappear in the crowd.Showing lack of interest discourages the crowd and makes the whole atmosphere dull.I call such people diffusers.They take away the light in everything.They are disappointed by each and everything.They suck out life in you and leave you unfulfilled.These people are complicated,unsolvable,irritating and also they themselves cannot provide any justification on why they behave in a certain manner.
People are complicated maybe because they have some serious complicated things going on in their life or maybe because they are angry on the world for rewarding them with some injustice.Or they might be born that way or they might have changed after an event in their life or they are insecure about something or plainly they are hungry!(So if you find any more reasons...please mention in the comments box. :D)
So finally accepting that certain people are built in a certain way.. what do people around them do?
Me?I ignore such people and don't let them in my happy zone.Thats the best possible way.You can also try and change these diffusers.(my advice-DO NOT.)You also can enquire about the reason they are this way.Maybe they will be able to explain their struggle and you will understand why they are Complicated.Or plainly move on with your life.But if you yourself are one of the candle blowers..if you know what I meant here..then please my darling...stop it right now.Analyize whether you are causing trouble to the people around you?Are you being ignored?Are you really at fault?If yes,its time to sort yourself out my friend.See what is bothering you and don't make the weather around you gloomy.
Laugh and Enjoy when you are supposed to.Be sad and sit and cry when you are in real need of it.Ponder over yourself.Think twice.But most importantly LIVE AND LET LIVE.And LOVE.Life is really short,cut out this complication of yours well in advance before it consumes you completely.
Don't be a diffuser and stay away from one.SMILEEEE..., :)
-Peace n Love
Shalaka
I guess In the process of being too strong...THOSE people locked their HEART in a cage...nw every feeling goes untouched as "They" continue to survive :) and that's why we think They are complicated (._.')
ReplyDeleteAgreed.But locking away your heart in the process of being strong is not the solution to any problem.Keep your heart delicate and in the purest form but build a cage around it in such a way that nobody can hurt you and you don't lose your tenderness too!
DeleteThankyou so much for commenting! :)
Also such over strong and hard hearted people should return back to life with the same personality and gentleness as soon as possible.And I think being genuinely happy with life will make them solve their complicated nature.
DeleteExcellent analysis of human behavior presented in this blog.
ReplyDeleteThere is definitely, definitely and definitely no logic to judge human behavior.There is no map and compass which will help to judge it. So do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace.