Dearest Readers,
How was your weekend?Mine was horrible.I was sick to my stomach yesterday and didn't even get up from the bed.I slept for flat 7 hours yesterday,didn't eat for 2 days(except an ice-cream)I feel sooo bad I broke my marathon.Last time I almost broke it,but had my luck but this time no such luck.Damn my body!OK.Sorry.Now that I am done cursing myself,lets get back to our love themed posts and begin with our post 11.
Often people who have completed more than say a 6 months in a relationship,tend to get bored.I have heard of many people who complain saying that they are bored in same routine of texting,meeting calling and roaming about.They say there is NO SPICE left in the relation.Now this boredom can be a result of continuous fights,someone more attractive or someones relationship seems more happier place to be,or simply lets say life gets boring and a routine is set.I have also seen people who break up after 5/6 years of relationship,due to just boredom.It maybe be mutual or not.There are counsellors just making many money out there to help people realise that they still are in love.This is sad.
So I came up with 10 ways to keep your relationship long-lasting.Whatever might be your age.And also your relationship's age.
1)1. Start doing things together. A lot of times especially in long-term relationships,we start to live our own lives,so to speak and do less and less things with our partners. Start doing activities together three to five times a week. Go for a walk, go for a bike ride or shop for and cook a meal together once a week. It will bring you closer and give you shared experiences to bond over.
2. Touch each other and do it often. Touch doesn't need to be sexual to draw us closer to our partner. Rub each others shoulders from time-to-time. Hold hands when you walk. When we touch each other, it helps us feel more connected with one another.
3.Spend time with other couples.Spending time with couples who have healthy relationships can be good for you. Look for couples who share your values and who have a strong relationship. It can help reinforce the importance of commitment and help remind you to keep the relationship exciting.
4.Send each other romantic messages.And make it a HABIT to say I love you,atleast once a day.
5.Buy each other random gifts on normal mundane weekdays.This helps you tell the opposite person that they are still important and cared about.
6.Listen a romantic song while sleeping.This helps to reciprocate feelings.Listen to the same song or dedicate each other different songs.See what works for you.
7.Greet One Another with Excitement.Changing small habits, such as the way you greet your partner when they get home, can be key to a lasting relationship. Greet your partner at the door with a hug and a kiss and express your joy at being together again. This can start things off on the right foot and set you on the path to reconnect after being apart.
8.Go out on small dates on every weekend and make a short road trip every month mandatory.Take turns to decide the destinations.This will help you in respecting each others choices.
9.Take your partner to your group of friends and flaunt him/her.This way your partner will feel wanted and won't leave you ever.
10.My personal touch-Mutually decide and stop contacting him/her for 3 days or 5 days.Absolute no contact.No messages,no calls,no see.Act like you are on a far deserted island.See how it feels.Analyse how much you miss that person.And trust me after these days...it will be like the 1st time you met.You will fall for that person again.And your relationship will take a new turn.
I first of all wish that no relationship ever has this boredom problem.And if at all it occurs,I hope you do the things mentioned above to solve your issues.But even if lack of love doesn't happen to you,you must do these things after a year is over.Just to make sure you both are in the same place.Just remember the reason you are with your partner and make him/her also realise it once in an often.Be in love always.And stay in love always is most important and difficult part of the story.ALL THE BEST!! ;)
-Peace and Love
Shalaka
How was your weekend?Mine was horrible.I was sick to my stomach yesterday and didn't even get up from the bed.I slept for flat 7 hours yesterday,didn't eat for 2 days(except an ice-cream)I feel sooo bad I broke my marathon.Last time I almost broke it,but had my luck but this time no such luck.Damn my body!OK.Sorry.Now that I am done cursing myself,lets get back to our love themed posts and begin with our post 11.
Often people who have completed more than say a 6 months in a relationship,tend to get bored.I have heard of many people who complain saying that they are bored in same routine of texting,meeting calling and roaming about.They say there is NO SPICE left in the relation.Now this boredom can be a result of continuous fights,someone more attractive or someones relationship seems more happier place to be,or simply lets say life gets boring and a routine is set.I have also seen people who break up after 5/6 years of relationship,due to just boredom.It maybe be mutual or not.There are counsellors just making many money out there to help people realise that they still are in love.This is sad.
So I came up with 10 ways to keep your relationship long-lasting.Whatever might be your age.And also your relationship's age.
1)1. Start doing things together. A lot of times especially in long-term relationships,we start to live our own lives,so to speak and do less and less things with our partners. Start doing activities together three to five times a week. Go for a walk, go for a bike ride or shop for and cook a meal together once a week. It will bring you closer and give you shared experiences to bond over.
2. Touch each other and do it often. Touch doesn't need to be sexual to draw us closer to our partner. Rub each others shoulders from time-to-time. Hold hands when you walk. When we touch each other, it helps us feel more connected with one another.
3.Spend time with other couples.Spending time with couples who have healthy relationships can be good for you. Look for couples who share your values and who have a strong relationship. It can help reinforce the importance of commitment and help remind you to keep the relationship exciting.
4.Send each other romantic messages.And make it a HABIT to say I love you,atleast once a day.
5.Buy each other random gifts on normal mundane weekdays.This helps you tell the opposite person that they are still important and cared about.
6.Listen a romantic song while sleeping.This helps to reciprocate feelings.Listen to the same song or dedicate each other different songs.See what works for you.
7.Greet One Another with Excitement.Changing small habits, such as the way you greet your partner when they get home, can be key to a lasting relationship. Greet your partner at the door with a hug and a kiss and express your joy at being together again. This can start things off on the right foot and set you on the path to reconnect after being apart.
8.Go out on small dates on every weekend and make a short road trip every month mandatory.Take turns to decide the destinations.This will help you in respecting each others choices.
9.Take your partner to your group of friends and flaunt him/her.This way your partner will feel wanted and won't leave you ever.
10.My personal touch-Mutually decide and stop contacting him/her for 3 days or 5 days.Absolute no contact.No messages,no calls,no see.Act like you are on a far deserted island.See how it feels.Analyse how much you miss that person.And trust me after these days...it will be like the 1st time you met.You will fall for that person again.And your relationship will take a new turn.
I first of all wish that no relationship ever has this boredom problem.And if at all it occurs,I hope you do the things mentioned above to solve your issues.But even if lack of love doesn't happen to you,you must do these things after a year is over.Just to make sure you both are in the same place.Just remember the reason you are with your partner and make him/her also realise it once in an often.Be in love always.And stay in love always is most important and difficult part of the story.ALL THE BEST!! ;)
-Peace and Love
Shalaka
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