Dearest Readers,
How was your weekend!?What are you going to do tomorrow?Are you busy or will you be chilling?Whatever you might be doing,don't drink and drive or drink and have sex. :D
Now this is a type of topic I have never written on and is a very bold step from my side.Caution is that it has no resemblance to my life.I am saying just on the basis of what I have heard and read and felt.So sex.What does this mean to you?Today's media is such that it screams out sex.There is sex on the t.v,in movies,in books,in newspapers and all over the internet.There is no secret about it and...it is ofcourse a natural thing to do by a human.But at times many people misunderstand this term "natural".Apart from that in India,sex is also a word which should be used only at the night times,with Sunny Leone,and mostly by boys.Indian society feels sex is not a need for a woman.Infact she is the slave.Now again many woman and men equally misinterpret the word "need" here.And this is what I want to come to today.The need of sex.
Actually if I tell you something you will say its your personal choice at what age should you have sex.But ask me biologically,anything less than 16 for both a girl and a guy is harmful.Psychologically,and maturity wise too.And then the next question when should a person have sex.Well according to me,sex is a very sacred bond between two individuals.It should be done after a year and more of a serious,committed relationship.Anything before that and not inside the close boundaries of a love filled relationship is what is called casual for me.
Sex.The media,the Indian mentality,the society has given this beautiful bond of love,trust a very very cheap stand.They all make sex sound dirty.When it is not the case.Sex is the ultimate gift from one person to another.It is your body and soul's way of saying I love you.It indicates trust.It is like a Pooja in Hindu religion.It is a thing which is to be worshiped and practised between two individuals only.It must be a private affair.It must be very special and with the consent of both.If people understand this simple thing that sex is the daughter of love and is to be shared with one person only,many lives would have been better by now.Now a days people treat sex like beer.They think it is an addiction,an entertainment,for enjoyment.And have no shame in doing so.I wonder where the morals of such people flies away.How can you have casual sex with another person?Just for a night?Just for fun?Without knowing him?Is your body and soul so hungry?Are you in your senses.I really doubt how can you get naked in front of the person you just met at the bar?What is so wrong with you?
Often one night stands,lead to a regretful morning.Not everybody enjoys this.But why indulge in casual sex in the first place.What if you are going to get a BMW,why settle for a Nano...just because you want to have a car?Don't you have two legs to walk on?I don't have a problem with pre martial sex.A test drive is always better than realising that your car does not have gears.But just one test drive is enough with one person.If all is okay,focus on falling in love wala part.
Also I need not tell you this but casual sex is also very dangerous.It can lead to sexually transmitted diseases.And a scar for a lifetime.You are not prostitutes.Then why sell your body.For just that moment of fun?People who are happy in relationships also cheat and have sex!Why?Variety is the spice of life?If you want so much of variety in life,its better you go on a diet.You are already in bad shape.
All I want to say is that sex is beautiful when done with a right partner at the right time.Don't let yourself in just because you are drunk or your friends are having sex or because you watched porn the other day.Wait.Patiently.To fall in love.And then when you both are comfortable see what joys it brings to you.How satisfied you will be.It will fill you up.If you are in a relationship the more the better.3 times a week is sexy and increases your health by reducing stress and feeling more committed towards your partner.Sex is the final paycheck after a nice meal.Enjoy your meal or relationship or love first.Don't be in the hurry to do it.Control your excitement.Have lots of kissing and foreplay.Make sure your partner likes all of this.
Hope you are morally correct and watching yourself and where you are headed too.A settled family with a lovely wife/husband or that slut's lane.
-Peace n Love
Shalaka
How was your weekend!?What are you going to do tomorrow?Are you busy or will you be chilling?Whatever you might be doing,don't drink and drive or drink and have sex. :D
Now this is a type of topic I have never written on and is a very bold step from my side.Caution is that it has no resemblance to my life.I am saying just on the basis of what I have heard and read and felt.So sex.What does this mean to you?Today's media is such that it screams out sex.There is sex on the t.v,in movies,in books,in newspapers and all over the internet.There is no secret about it and...it is ofcourse a natural thing to do by a human.But at times many people misunderstand this term "natural".Apart from that in India,sex is also a word which should be used only at the night times,with Sunny Leone,and mostly by boys.Indian society feels sex is not a need for a woman.Infact she is the slave.Now again many woman and men equally misinterpret the word "need" here.And this is what I want to come to today.The need of sex.
Actually if I tell you something you will say its your personal choice at what age should you have sex.But ask me biologically,anything less than 16 for both a girl and a guy is harmful.Psychologically,and maturity wise too.And then the next question when should a person have sex.Well according to me,sex is a very sacred bond between two individuals.It should be done after a year and more of a serious,committed relationship.Anything before that and not inside the close boundaries of a love filled relationship is what is called casual for me.
Sex.The media,the Indian mentality,the society has given this beautiful bond of love,trust a very very cheap stand.They all make sex sound dirty.When it is not the case.Sex is the ultimate gift from one person to another.It is your body and soul's way of saying I love you.It indicates trust.It is like a Pooja in Hindu religion.It is a thing which is to be worshiped and practised between two individuals only.It must be a private affair.It must be very special and with the consent of both.If people understand this simple thing that sex is the daughter of love and is to be shared with one person only,many lives would have been better by now.Now a days people treat sex like beer.They think it is an addiction,an entertainment,for enjoyment.And have no shame in doing so.I wonder where the morals of such people flies away.How can you have casual sex with another person?Just for a night?Just for fun?Without knowing him?Is your body and soul so hungry?Are you in your senses.I really doubt how can you get naked in front of the person you just met at the bar?What is so wrong with you?
Often one night stands,lead to a regretful morning.Not everybody enjoys this.But why indulge in casual sex in the first place.What if you are going to get a BMW,why settle for a Nano...just because you want to have a car?Don't you have two legs to walk on?I don't have a problem with pre martial sex.A test drive is always better than realising that your car does not have gears.But just one test drive is enough with one person.If all is okay,focus on falling in love wala part.
Also I need not tell you this but casual sex is also very dangerous.It can lead to sexually transmitted diseases.And a scar for a lifetime.You are not prostitutes.Then why sell your body.For just that moment of fun?People who are happy in relationships also cheat and have sex!Why?Variety is the spice of life?If you want so much of variety in life,its better you go on a diet.You are already in bad shape.
All I want to say is that sex is beautiful when done with a right partner at the right time.Don't let yourself in just because you are drunk or your friends are having sex or because you watched porn the other day.Wait.Patiently.To fall in love.And then when you both are comfortable see what joys it brings to you.How satisfied you will be.It will fill you up.If you are in a relationship the more the better.3 times a week is sexy and increases your health by reducing stress and feeling more committed towards your partner.Sex is the final paycheck after a nice meal.Enjoy your meal or relationship or love first.Don't be in the hurry to do it.Control your excitement.Have lots of kissing and foreplay.Make sure your partner likes all of this.
Hope you are morally correct and watching yourself and where you are headed too.A settled family with a lovely wife/husband or that slut's lane.
-Peace n Love
Shalaka
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