Dearest Readers,
Today I want to thank all of you for your opinions which I had asked you about,whether we should we continue with love themed posts or should we move on?Most of you voted for continuing the loved themed posts and I thank you for guessing what really was on my mind.And wishing all of you a Happy Happy Dhulivandan,the day we mostly play colours.Because I don't know how many of you have a holiday on Rangapanchami!Whenever you play colours make sure you play colours only without water.SAVE WATER FOLKS.Please.Maharashtra is really in a bad situation.
Now coming towards our topic.Are we moving on too much?Are we moving away too much from what we call the idea of love?Has love become your synonym word for bullshit?Do you roll eyes when you see couples smooching?If all of the above answers a YES.I guess you are a Misanthrope.Or have become one.
Why does this happen?In my eyes,you have done damage to yourself by believing that there is no one for you out there.You have done damage when you don't believe in love at first sight or you hate love or love hate or hate relationships.Why are you saying so?I guess many people jump to this conclusion because of a bad bad breakup.Their partner might have left them for no reason or a reason so silly one may not believe."I don't want to be in a relationship again!A relationship is too much of work.God,how much my girlfriend nags,my whole salary is spent in her gifts.God he is so possessive,so restrictive,he smokes,he doesn't listen to me or he never listened to me!He cheated/she cheated" Are the complains of every corner of the street.But as you can see here... poor love does not have a say.It has been left far behind.These are those silly little issues because of which relationships and love is blamed and cursed.All of the above issues can be solved.
What should be done to our generation is that we all should be given LOVE EDUCATION along with sex education.Basic rules of relationships like not to cheat or leave a partner for sick reasons is what everybody should understand and inculcate in themselves.If this kind of revolution happens no bad breakups might happen and then probably all the singles will start believing in love.I feel very sad when two people in love breakup or single people say relationships are a huge burden.They are not.Trust me.With the right person you will always feel motivated,happy and cheerful.Relationships give a spice to life.They are meant to make life beautiful and easy and comfortable.Not tearful,hurtful or simply awful.This generation needs to realise the value of TRUE LOVE.Yes it is there.Right there.But if you neglect it how will you enjoy this major joy of life.True love does exist my friends.By true love I mean the love protrayed in all the films of Ambitabh Bachan.You just need to wait and watch.Your prince charming,princess cutie will come.Like for breakups,even love will take time to come and it will come.Make sure you don't miss an opportunity to make your life happier and cosier.He/she might be a bit late.(okay,too late)but are you sure you are not ignoring that glitter in your best friend's eye when they see you?Are you sure you have spoken to that guy online who is really interested in you?Come on..the whole world is not that bad.Whats the harm in just one coffee?You ask or you go.
Even after a Bad relationship,all I say is you must not lose hope and lose faith on love.That person,that fight,those situations,that person's mindset/character was bad.And at fault.Love was not.Love is that cute little rabbit with sweetest eyes.Don't imagine it to be a monster with sharp nails.No.Not at all.That too because of some stupid bitch or bastard who broke your heart.Love Love.Its the most wonderful feeling in the world.It can give you unmatched confidence.It empowers you.And gives you something to look forward to every day in this long long boring life.Just make sure you have put on your spectacles properly while choosing your loved one.
So let those violins run in your head,let those flowers bloom in your mind,let chiffon saris flow with the wind and let all those romantic songs ring in your head.Let your heart beat loudly and eyes glisten up when you see her/him.I love you all.
-Peace n Love
Shalaka
Today I want to thank all of you for your opinions which I had asked you about,whether we should we continue with love themed posts or should we move on?Most of you voted for continuing the loved themed posts and I thank you for guessing what really was on my mind.And wishing all of you a Happy Happy Dhulivandan,the day we mostly play colours.Because I don't know how many of you have a holiday on Rangapanchami!Whenever you play colours make sure you play colours only without water.SAVE WATER FOLKS.Please.Maharashtra is really in a bad situation.
Now coming towards our topic.Are we moving on too much?Are we moving away too much from what we call the idea of love?Has love become your synonym word for bullshit?Do you roll eyes when you see couples smooching?If all of the above answers a YES.I guess you are a Misanthrope.Or have become one.
Why does this happen?In my eyes,you have done damage to yourself by believing that there is no one for you out there.You have done damage when you don't believe in love at first sight or you hate love or love hate or hate relationships.Why are you saying so?I guess many people jump to this conclusion because of a bad bad breakup.Their partner might have left them for no reason or a reason so silly one may not believe."I don't want to be in a relationship again!A relationship is too much of work.God,how much my girlfriend nags,my whole salary is spent in her gifts.God he is so possessive,so restrictive,he smokes,he doesn't listen to me or he never listened to me!He cheated/she cheated" Are the complains of every corner of the street.But as you can see here... poor love does not have a say.It has been left far behind.These are those silly little issues because of which relationships and love is blamed and cursed.All of the above issues can be solved.
What should be done to our generation is that we all should be given LOVE EDUCATION along with sex education.Basic rules of relationships like not to cheat or leave a partner for sick reasons is what everybody should understand and inculcate in themselves.If this kind of revolution happens no bad breakups might happen and then probably all the singles will start believing in love.I feel very sad when two people in love breakup or single people say relationships are a huge burden.They are not.Trust me.With the right person you will always feel motivated,happy and cheerful.Relationships give a spice to life.They are meant to make life beautiful and easy and comfortable.Not tearful,hurtful or simply awful.This generation needs to realise the value of TRUE LOVE.Yes it is there.Right there.But if you neglect it how will you enjoy this major joy of life.True love does exist my friends.By true love I mean the love protrayed in all the films of Ambitabh Bachan.You just need to wait and watch.Your prince charming,princess cutie will come.Like for breakups,even love will take time to come and it will come.Make sure you don't miss an opportunity to make your life happier and cosier.He/she might be a bit late.(okay,too late)but are you sure you are not ignoring that glitter in your best friend's eye when they see you?Are you sure you have spoken to that guy online who is really interested in you?Come on..the whole world is not that bad.Whats the harm in just one coffee?You ask or you go.
Even after a Bad relationship,all I say is you must not lose hope and lose faith on love.That person,that fight,those situations,that person's mindset/character was bad.And at fault.Love was not.Love is that cute little rabbit with sweetest eyes.Don't imagine it to be a monster with sharp nails.No.Not at all.That too because of some stupid bitch or bastard who broke your heart.Love Love.Its the most wonderful feeling in the world.It can give you unmatched confidence.It empowers you.And gives you something to look forward to every day in this long long boring life.Just make sure you have put on your spectacles properly while choosing your loved one.
So let those violins run in your head,let those flowers bloom in your mind,let chiffon saris flow with the wind and let all those romantic songs ring in your head.Let your heart beat loudly and eyes glisten up when you see her/him.I love you all.
-Peace n Love
Shalaka
Very well said...Love life..
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