Dearest Readers,
What can I hide from you..I was very busy yesterday.Wait.I hate the word busy.I was doing my report work and then slept on the sofa itself.But this passion of writing you know it doesn't let you sleep.I woke up after an hour and remembered I had forgotten to post.I had the whole post outlined in my mind yesterday but sleep and fatigue overcame me.However I managed to write the jist of what the post was about.I didn't want to break this marathon.Yes.I did it.I didn't let my little lamp go off.This is also true love you know.Towards my writing and also you precious readers who are eagrely waiting for my posts.I don't like to disappoint you sweethearts.
So here is what I wanted to tell you yesterday.The basic elements for a successful relationship.I see many many relationships failing everyday.Trust me it hurts me.So much.All those tears,that hurt,those bad words and those awful situations and after effects of a breakup.Depression.Swollen eyes.Cut wrists.Lost vision and pale physic.All of it.It pinches my heart.So if you are in a relationship or ever intend to be you must make a tick mark on this checklist.
TRUST-Now trust means that you believe in that person 110%.I read a quote somewhere that if she loves you,you need not worry about who loves her.You can also put him here and I think what trust should be is summoned up in that line.The whole idea is a man may roam around on the road for the whole day but in the end he will come home.So be your gf/bf's home.Make sure they won't roam around much.
Now if they do you need to take in the 2nd point.
FUN/HUMOUR-Make sure your relationship has both these quotients in it.Lots of fun outings together,dates,common adventures,small road trips,long vacations.All of this.Include it in your relationship n I don't think your partner will need anyone or anthing else.Keep them busy and entertained with your love.Both of you.
RESPECT-This is a very important element of a relationship.Respect in all forms,respect to one's choices,nature,way of thought,hobbies,friends and also opinions.Shouting out in public,insulting each other in public,looking down upon your partner,constant quirky remarks,disrespecting his family is a complete no-no.Any barrier to individuality is a form of disrespect.Avoid it.
COMMUNICATION-Now this is an element which lacks in most of the relationships and that becomes the reason for cheating or breakup later on in life.Now communication means contacting the person whom you love atleast once in a day maybe via message or calls are more better or meet them very often.Make it most of the times in a week.Ask them about how was the day,did they eat,how do they feel.These things makes one feel loved and cared and thought about.This is very important.Communication with your partner's current mood,thought process is very important.To tell what you feel is what you should for better relationship.Never conceal or modify your true feelings in front of your partner.
SPACE-Most of the relationships in early days if they fail,fail due to lack of space and freedom in a relation.Give your partner some time.Alone,with friends,with family,with other important work than you.They will get back to you.Have patience.They do love you and are not going to fly away.But also make sure you are giving them space on the earth and not the entire universe's space.Don't let them feel ignored.
LOVE-Love is very important in a love relationship isn't it?Love as in that ultimate feeling for your partner.Liking his each n every part,accepting him,caring for him.Love is that feeling when you can't stop smiling at their messages,can't stop looking at them,and also can't stop thinking about them.You just love the person.He/she completes you.Make sure you are not in love with the idea of love.But in actual,irrevocable,unconditional love.
FRIENDSHIP-This is a must for a happy go lucky relationship.He must be your best friend.Someone around whom you can be yourself.Wear anything,say anything,behave the way you are.You need to change yourself.So friendship is a must for a relationship.
LOYALTY-Once you have choosen your partner try n make that person your life partner.Fights,abuses happen in all relationships.But don't give up on your loved one.You are with him for a reason.All that glitters is not gold.Don't run behind that brass.
Apart from this,control over anger,not bringing up money issues and not getting physically voilent is also an important virtue.So tell me...are you in a relationship?
If yes send the link of my blog to your partner and discuss whether you follow of these.If you have a crush send him the link too!He might just get a hit!;)
Have a LOVEly night folks!See you tomorrow.
-Peace n Love
Shalaka
What can I hide from you..I was very busy yesterday.Wait.I hate the word busy.I was doing my report work and then slept on the sofa itself.But this passion of writing you know it doesn't let you sleep.I woke up after an hour and remembered I had forgotten to post.I had the whole post outlined in my mind yesterday but sleep and fatigue overcame me.However I managed to write the jist of what the post was about.I didn't want to break this marathon.Yes.I did it.I didn't let my little lamp go off.This is also true love you know.Towards my writing and also you precious readers who are eagrely waiting for my posts.I don't like to disappoint you sweethearts.
So here is what I wanted to tell you yesterday.The basic elements for a successful relationship.I see many many relationships failing everyday.Trust me it hurts me.So much.All those tears,that hurt,those bad words and those awful situations and after effects of a breakup.Depression.Swollen eyes.Cut wrists.Lost vision and pale physic.All of it.It pinches my heart.So if you are in a relationship or ever intend to be you must make a tick mark on this checklist.
TRUST-Now trust means that you believe in that person 110%.I read a quote somewhere that if she loves you,you need not worry about who loves her.You can also put him here and I think what trust should be is summoned up in that line.The whole idea is a man may roam around on the road for the whole day but in the end he will come home.So be your gf/bf's home.Make sure they won't roam around much.
Now if they do you need to take in the 2nd point.
FUN/HUMOUR-Make sure your relationship has both these quotients in it.Lots of fun outings together,dates,common adventures,small road trips,long vacations.All of this.Include it in your relationship n I don't think your partner will need anyone or anthing else.Keep them busy and entertained with your love.Both of you.
RESPECT-This is a very important element of a relationship.Respect in all forms,respect to one's choices,nature,way of thought,hobbies,friends and also opinions.Shouting out in public,insulting each other in public,looking down upon your partner,constant quirky remarks,disrespecting his family is a complete no-no.Any barrier to individuality is a form of disrespect.Avoid it.
COMMUNICATION-Now this is an element which lacks in most of the relationships and that becomes the reason for cheating or breakup later on in life.Now communication means contacting the person whom you love atleast once in a day maybe via message or calls are more better or meet them very often.Make it most of the times in a week.Ask them about how was the day,did they eat,how do they feel.These things makes one feel loved and cared and thought about.This is very important.Communication with your partner's current mood,thought process is very important.To tell what you feel is what you should for better relationship.Never conceal or modify your true feelings in front of your partner.
SPACE-Most of the relationships in early days if they fail,fail due to lack of space and freedom in a relation.Give your partner some time.Alone,with friends,with family,with other important work than you.They will get back to you.Have patience.They do love you and are not going to fly away.But also make sure you are giving them space on the earth and not the entire universe's space.Don't let them feel ignored.
LOVE-Love is very important in a love relationship isn't it?Love as in that ultimate feeling for your partner.Liking his each n every part,accepting him,caring for him.Love is that feeling when you can't stop smiling at their messages,can't stop looking at them,and also can't stop thinking about them.You just love the person.He/she completes you.Make sure you are not in love with the idea of love.But in actual,irrevocable,unconditional love.
FRIENDSHIP-This is a must for a happy go lucky relationship.He must be your best friend.Someone around whom you can be yourself.Wear anything,say anything,behave the way you are.You need to change yourself.So friendship is a must for a relationship.
LOYALTY-Once you have choosen your partner try n make that person your life partner.Fights,abuses happen in all relationships.But don't give up on your loved one.You are with him for a reason.All that glitters is not gold.Don't run behind that brass.
Apart from this,control over anger,not bringing up money issues and not getting physically voilent is also an important virtue.So tell me...are you in a relationship?
If yes send the link of my blog to your partner and discuss whether you follow of these.If you have a crush send him the link too!He might just get a hit!;)
Have a LOVEly night folks!See you tomorrow.
-Peace n Love
Shalaka
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