How long will you last,Love!?

Dearest Readers,

today I happen to stumble upon this lovely song by Ellie Goulding.So sharing its lyrics with you.The music video is also satisfying.Do check it out.

How long will I love you
As long as stars are above you
And longer if I can

How long will I need you
As long as the seasons need to
Follow their plan

How long will I be with you
As long as the sea is bound to
Wash up on the sand

How long will I want you
As long as you want me to
And longer by far

How long will I hold you
As long as your father told you
As long as you can

How long will I give to you
As long as I live through you
However long you say

How long will I love you
As long as stars are above you
And longer if I may

How long will I love you
As long as stars are above you.

So really...I mean really do you know when will you have your true soul mate?if you have found him or her do you how long it is going to last?Is he or she "the soulmate"?or something is missing?Do you have any idea how will you meet THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE?or where will you meet!Do you know hows your life going to be taking a turn?Well no one knows.All we have in hand is to love unconditionally.Irrevocably.And with giving zero f#@(s to what the future is and its consequences.

So while letting yourself off this cliff... many a times... we are stuck...somewhere in between.Unable to decide whether to take the plunge or simply stay back safe.Staying back safe would mean crushing our heart and not letting yourself in love.Keeping yourself away from all that "drama" of a relationship.But taking the plunge may mean temporary happiness or permanent happiness,maybe a lifetime partner?or a lifetime scar.But the puzzle remains the same.How long will the love last?

Will it find you in the first place.Or will you go and grab and it?I told you yesterday about how to make your relationship long lasting.We gradually moved from crushes,to pillars of relationship and then this.Somehow this thought struck me today and I was suddenly scared.I was restless.Yes there are happy relationships,childhood sweethearts,people marrying at 60 but then what will happen if one fine day you end up single?And your relationship ends.Just like the beautiful dream of heaven.Of course like getting into a relationship takes time so does coming out of it.(If the breakup is not mutual.)

But just give it a thought.Even if your are not in a relationship,you will get married one day.What if your marriage ends?What if your partner leaves you.All of a sudden.In the middle of nowhere.Right on the street you met him.Without any further justifications.We all promise in the initial lovyy-duvyy days of relationship that I love you forever and after and we will stay together till death do us apart.But how often does this happen.Especially when you are in India with society hovering around your head.Is your partner really ready to fight with world as he promised sometime in the January of your relationship?WHAT IF LOVE,LEAVES YOUR LIFE?

-Peace n Love

Shalaka