Is your heart okay?

Dearest Readers,
 First things first,it is my 50th post!!!!YAY!!!!From the time I ever started blogging,this is my 50th post.Oh the joy!!I can't thank you enough for the support.I have the same feeling which Virat had day before yesterday.And I am bowing down in front of you readers as he did in front of Sachin and audience in total gratitude.I hope and promise to keep you entertained and force you to rethink till my last breath!Oh Boy!!I am all emotional.Half century and not out and long way to go!
Second things second..I took a lazy holiday yesterday!Why do I do this?!I was too emotionally drained actually but then a promise is a promise and commitment should be that.I am failing and sorry!Chuck this schedule man!
AND now,Our  as our title says-Is your heart okay?Okay.Read these lyrics for me.They struck me hard yesterday.

phool khilte hain,
log milte hain,
phool khilte hain,
log milte hain magar
patjhad main jo phool
murjha jate hain
woh baharon ke aane se khilte nahin
kuchh log ek roz jo bichad jate hain
woh hazaron ke aane se milte nahin
umr bhar chahe koi pukara kare unka naam
woh phir nahin aate,
woh phir nahin aate!

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subaah aati hai
raat jaati hai
subaah aati hai
raat jaati hai yuhi
waqt chalta hi rehta hai rookta nahi
ek pal me ye aage nikal jaata hai
aadmi theek se dekh paata nahin
aur parde pe manzar badal jaata hai,
ek baar chale jaate hai jo din raat subah shaam
woh, woh phir nahi aate
woh phir nahi aate!
zindagi ke safar mein,guzar jate hain jo makam
woh phir nahin aate,
woh phir nahin aate!

These are the beautiful lyrics of Zindagi ke safar main song by Kishor Kumar. Listen to the song if you never have.It is truly heart wrenching to hear them.Every chord just strucks right with me.In those simple 5 mins,Kishor Da has explained the gist of life.The whole meaning of it.What to do after a breakup.What happens to the people we lose.What to do when you know they are not coming back.Like forever.

You know at times you have tried your level best to bring a person back into your life after they have decided to walk away.They won't just listen.They are 100% sure they don't want you.What will you do.These are the times when you really need to take care of your heart.That poor thing is broken into million pieces and your tiny little world which you have built around the person who left you collapses.But as everybody says,you have to move on.You have to give time some time.The amount of time you are in a relationship divided by 2 will give the time you will require to move on;says Sex and the City.True shit.Give yourself all those crying moments you want,all those addictions you want to get to,spend time with friends,catch up on hobbies and good books,join gym.Do whatever it takes to take away your mind from those unwanted memories.Erase them.I know sometimes an entire lifetime is not enough to forget a person completely.But hey who is telling you to shift delete.You may keep the good part if you like.Just STAY STRONG.And get going with life.Time won't stop for you,so completely ignoring your career is not done.You have family and responsibilities and a MAJOR life outside that bitch/bastard you must not forget.You have your own dreams and you have to follow them.Do something crazy or adventurous. Focus somewhere else,on yourself maybe.Go camping.Just get a hold of your life soon.Talk it out with someone.I wish you and your heart all the very best for a better life ahead.A better future lies ahead.Believe in destiny.

Today we end our love themed posts...a week is over.But hey...I have many topics still in my mind like is casual sex worth the effort?Have we moved on a bit too much from love?How to rekindle in a relationship!So tell me my babies,what should we do?A week more of relationships,love and spice?Or no...you single ladies and lads getting bored and we should switch to some other general topics.Tell me,what would you like a hear?A half week more of this stuff maybe?Or a complete NO?

We started from crushes to now we have moved on.I have covered all the basics.We can move towards more and real complexities of life and love.Whatever your choice,I love you all!Have a good night!

-Peace n Love

Shalaka