Wednesday, 30 March 2016

Boys/Girls are whatever,Friends are Forever.

Dearest Readers,
I did write a short post yesterday inspite of my dull mood and a very bad day.Did you notice?Also I did not write anything just to fill up a post.I wrote what I did and to the full honesty of my heart.Well life goes on and you have to move on.

I have never done a "friends" post.I did not feel like because I did not feel anyone was worth my friendship.Life is a bitch and it has never really blessed me with a whole lot of friends and a huge group to hang out with.Let alone that...many close ones have also ditched me so bad I almost lost faith in humanity.I am a person who would give a trillion chances for million mistakes.I also tried to make new friends forgetting the past experience and also thinking somewhere I must be wrong.What I ended up was being with more fake people.These days many of our friends are fake.They get jealous of your success and laugh behind your back seeing you get hurt or at your tears.Most of them I am saying.Not all.
But seriously keeping aside the failure of my destiny and not constantly cribbing about it,CURRENTLY,I am just saying,currently I am blessed with two very loyal friends.And by loyal I mean if I look sexier than them today they will compliment me and spank my ass and they can also tell me that I smell today and can make out that I skipped my bath today. :D
Such should be friendships.Selfless.Flawless.Jealousyless.Lovefilled.Encouragement filled.They both are the people who will make it a point to meet me almost daily and if I feel low they will almost immediately cheer me up.They make me happy.And make me forget my bad past or irritable current or worried future.We plan out movies and having fun time in the evening spots.We decide to go parties and to go GOA.For many of you this might be a routine but for me I have received such genuine friendship after a wait for 15+ years.These are the people who truly make me happy and joyous,inside out.I never believed in friendship days or friendship quotes but I am actually reconsidering this.This is true that friendship is the best relationship.It is like being in a relationship without its daily troubles and fights and perks.It is much tension free.Yesterday itself I heard a dialogue of Sex and the City that maybe our friends are our soulmates and our partners are the ones whom we can just have fun with.Read physical fun. :D

Even having a lot of friends and that too nice ones leads to a happy being single road.Many people are truly happily single because they can have all the fun and frolic with friends and they don't need any physical fun.Also I guess that those needing that fun and wanting to enjoy friendship and the no bondage gives rise to friends with benefits type of relationship.


So whats your take?Single and fabulous with friends!?no real friends?or friends with benefits?;)
Whatever might be your call...I am just feeling blessed tonight.And even you should try and have a small or large but clean minded set of people called as true and best friends!!And consider me one of them! :*


-Peace n Love
Shalaka



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