Dearest Readers,
The weekend is here!!And what are your plans!?Work,Family,Friends!?Or is it going to be just the both of you?I mean you and yourself.Thats all.
I think,it is very necessary to spend some quality time with yourself.And get to know what do you actually want!For that thing,you must respect yourself enough.Now all of you might be thinking that we already respect ourselves a lot..what do I exactly mean?Well I mean,often times are such that people say mean things to you,behave rudely with you,cheat on you and walk over your heart.We deal with this in numerous ways,like some people accept what has happened and accept that other party's demand,some people rep remand.However you might react you have troubled yourself in some way or other.We cry.We all do.Take those same swollen eyes to work next day.Some people also remain in their shells for days to come.But my question is WHY DO THIS TO YOURSELF?
In our childhood days,nobody tells us that there is very bad world waiting for us out there.To dwell on our innocent hearts.To murder its purity.Very goody pictures are put up about growing up.The truth is its a trap.You come across so many bad people that actually your goodness is affected.Nobody tells us that we will be hurt.And mind you brutally.And mind you by the person whom we love the most.But what to do next after getting hurt is what no one tells us.
The point I want to make here is we must keep ourselves our first priorities.Log kya kahenge or Duniya mujhe rulati hai should be a No-No.As I have said in my numerous posts before...keep your heart safe.In a box.And lock it up.And don't open it up for any stupid person.Mostly follow the golden rule that ignorance is a bliss.It might hurt at the start.Give yourself a brief moment and then don't even bother about it.Don't pay much of close attention to that hurtful person.He/She will hurt once twice but seeing that it doesn't affect you will affect them.People out there are filled with attitude and jealousy.They will curse you but as they say when an elephant walks on the streets.. dogs will bark.
Be selfish.But only about protecting your heart from any outer world sorrow that to from cheap human beings.Now this hurt can come from your family,your better half or your best friend.Try not to react much.Not every action deserves your reaction.Be free.Be happy.
I thought about writing this post because nobody ever told me this before that I was my ultimate own destination and that nobody matters beyond a certain level.I took everything too seriously.I always did and ended up spoiling my days n nights.Now I just endup with rolling eyes and a carefree attitude.
I hope you got the point.Now co'om wear your crown and f##k this world!
See you soon tomorrow!
Peace n Love
-Shalaka
The weekend is here!!And what are your plans!?Work,Family,Friends!?Or is it going to be just the both of you?I mean you and yourself.Thats all.
I think,it is very necessary to spend some quality time with yourself.And get to know what do you actually want!For that thing,you must respect yourself enough.Now all of you might be thinking that we already respect ourselves a lot..what do I exactly mean?Well I mean,often times are such that people say mean things to you,behave rudely with you,cheat on you and walk over your heart.We deal with this in numerous ways,like some people accept what has happened and accept that other party's demand,some people rep remand.However you might react you have troubled yourself in some way or other.We cry.We all do.Take those same swollen eyes to work next day.Some people also remain in their shells for days to come.But my question is WHY DO THIS TO YOURSELF?
In our childhood days,nobody tells us that there is very bad world waiting for us out there.To dwell on our innocent hearts.To murder its purity.Very goody pictures are put up about growing up.The truth is its a trap.You come across so many bad people that actually your goodness is affected.Nobody tells us that we will be hurt.And mind you brutally.And mind you by the person whom we love the most.But what to do next after getting hurt is what no one tells us.
The point I want to make here is we must keep ourselves our first priorities.Log kya kahenge or Duniya mujhe rulati hai should be a No-No.As I have said in my numerous posts before...keep your heart safe.In a box.And lock it up.And don't open it up for any stupid person.Mostly follow the golden rule that ignorance is a bliss.It might hurt at the start.Give yourself a brief moment and then don't even bother about it.Don't pay much of close attention to that hurtful person.He/She will hurt once twice but seeing that it doesn't affect you will affect them.People out there are filled with attitude and jealousy.They will curse you but as they say when an elephant walks on the streets.. dogs will bark.
Be selfish.But only about protecting your heart from any outer world sorrow that to from cheap human beings.Now this hurt can come from your family,your better half or your best friend.Try not to react much.Not every action deserves your reaction.Be free.Be happy.
I thought about writing this post because nobody ever told me this before that I was my ultimate own destination and that nobody matters beyond a certain level.I took everything too seriously.I always did and ended up spoiling my days n nights.Now I just endup with rolling eyes and a carefree attitude.
I hope you got the point.Now co'om wear your crown and f##k this world!
See you soon tomorrow!
Peace n Love
-Shalaka
You can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something - your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.
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